Mark 7:20-23 says “And he said, “What comes out of a person is what defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.”
Before I share this post, I first want to say that me being a follower of Jesus Christ if I do not talk about what is in the bible then my walk is in vain. As a follower I cannot just talk about topics that makes us feel comfortable I must talk about the ones that makes us squirm. I pray in the Name of Jesus that someone will be set free today.
When it comes to sex in a marriage it seems like everything goes. One spouse thinks that he or she can bring whatever into the marriage. Because they feel it is not a sin because they are married. But I am here to tell you that your marriage is to be honor by God and when we bring things like Pornography into our marriage bed what you are literally doing without even know it is allowing the enemy to have his way in your love-making.
The bible tells us that man is drawn away from his own lust, when he is tempted. Because the things that are in his heart come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride.
Just because you are married does not mean any and everything goes. Your marriage is not like the world and so we cannot bring the world views into our marriage. At the time it might appear to be innocent because the enemy loves to give us pretty pictures. He presents himself so innocent and once we embrace his gifts that is when he shows his true colors.
One day you wake up asking yourself questions like how did things go so wrong in your marriage? How come your spouse does not look at you the same way. How come he or she is always doing things without you. The list goes on and on. But why are you started? You invited it into the marriage. These types of things happen in marriages everyday all because man have chosen to ignore truth all because self loves the taste of pleasure so much that now the enemy has his foot in their marriage.
Now that you have open that doorway the enemy will now disturb everything else in your home. He will disturb your children, your health, career, friends, and family. Next, he will fill your heart with so much lust that you will be ashamed to even come to God. For your desire now is to feed that fire of lustful pleasure.
Men and woman for centuries have been wondering how to please their mate. Many books have been written on this very topic. From our own perspective we only know how to make love from what we have learned over the years or what we have seen in books and television, which is nothing but a fake. If you love your spouse with your heart and soul. Then you will make love to them that it brings honor to GOD.
If what you are doing now does not bring honor to God in your lovemaking, then I suggest you stop doing what you are doing and seek the Lord. God design lovemaking He knows all about it, so go to the source of who created it and stop going to man who is only trying to copy what he read and learned in life.
Don’t get me wrong there are many things couples ask and want to try but first before you try those things please I beg of you go to God first the both of you and discuss why is it that he or she are wanting to do a certain thing in your marriage bed. Because truth be told the reason is because it is our own fleshly desires anyway. This is something you’ve like doing and now you want your partner to do it as well.
Marriage is created by God and I do not want to see anyone destroying their marriage by bring things into that does not please the Lord. If you need help, I will also suggest speaking to a counsel at your church for Godly guidance. That is what the church is for to help the sick, if the church can’t help you then you find a church who will because your soul is more important than your pleasures you’re trying to fuel.