No Sex Before Marriage


Hebrews 13:4 says “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

Today I want to talk to you about what happens to a person when they have sex before they are married. I already know that some of you will say this is not a devotion. You might say this is too deep of a devotion. It belongs in a church setting. Or perhaps in a one-on-one in a home. If you feel this way that is okay for you. But for me I must talk about it because it is in God’s word.

When you have sex before marriage one of the things that surely happens to a person is, they become spiritually connected to that person. Which means whatever spiritual demons that person has you been connected to it as well. It is not just the sperm that this man deposited into you, but he deposited everything else about him. If the man or woman is mentally sick, you have a connection to that spirit. If one of them has emotional issues you are carrying them.

When a person engages in sex before marriage, they open themselves up for attacks from the demonic spirit realm. You find yourself doing and saying things you normally would never say or do. You go after people who you would never be in bed with and later you feel shameful and guilt you ask yourself “why” all because you haven’t gotten rid of the one person’s spirit now your letting another spirit deposit themselves into you.

Some may say I am not having sex with anyone, but even if you are not and you are doing other things to your body or watching porn and things like that. What you are doing is raping your own mind. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 says, Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.

You are still bringing those spirits into your mind. No wonder when a good man or woman comes into your life you cannot recognize them because you have overloaded your mind with evil spirits. Your mind needs to be pure so your thoughts and actions will be pure as well.

If what you read today sounds like you, I want you to know that there is hope for you. First you must repent of this act and ask the Lord to purify your thoughts and body. Ask the Lord to deliver you from this addiction, and finally seek God on how to stay free, begin to read verses on deliverance and healing.

This is one of the enemy’s tricks that he has been using for centuries he want nothing more than to corrupt our minds and fill them with lustful things. But the devil is a liar he cannot keep you bound to nothing unless you and I give him that power. The same power that raised Jesus from the dead is the same working power that can deliver you from any sexual addiction.

To God be the glory…AMEN

19 Comments Add yours

  1. rahjomuelvin says:

    Amen! We always have second chances in Jesus! Where sin increased, grace abounds all the more!♥️

    Blessings!

  2. Wow! That was a really powerful message my dear sister. I even gained a few great insight by reading your wonderful post. Thanks. God bless. – Evangelist, Robert M. Thomas, Jr.

  3. desirayl says:

    We serve a God of a second chances. He is always their ready to receive us just like the Prodigal son.

  4. desirayl says:

    Thank you, Evangelist Thomas. I just wish that more people would know this. There is so much more I wanted to share but I did not want it to be too long. There are so many bad spirits that attaches itself to those who have sex before marriage. It is a vicious cycle that the devil wants us to engage in.

    Have a bless day and again thank you for your commit.

  5. You’re welcome my dear sister in Christ Jesus. How a super blessed day. Smile.

  6. This should have read; Have a super blessed day.

  7. desirayl says:

    No worries Thank you and same too you.

  8. rahjomuelvin says:

    Amen to that!

  9. desirayl says:

    There is no God like our God. 🙏

  10. rahjomuelvin says:

    Indeed, there is no other!

  11. desirayl says:

    Thank you, glad you found it informative. As men and woman we need to keep our bodies pure.

    In my post I am not saying you can not meet people the post is regarding no sex before marriage.

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    Informative post.

  13. desirayl says:

    Thanks for reading it. Have a blessed day .

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  16. retrostank says:

    Exactly! And I like how you write the article without using the worldly/common phrase of “soul ties” because the Bible is bigger than that.

  17. desirayl says:

    Thank you for commenting and taking the time to read it. ❤

    Blessings to you.

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